Sometimes looking at your social media feeds can give you an inferiority complex about your relationship. Other couples seem to be taking more romantic trips, giving more beautiful gifts, posting more effusive birthday tributes to each other, living in fancier houses and even looking more in love in their photos. It's time for a reality check: 1) You don't know what's truly going on with other people. 2) The things I described above don't actually have a lot to do with how good a marriage is. Instead of comparing yourself with other couples, there's a better way to gauge the health of your relationship. Take a look at the list below. If statements like these describe your marriage, then you and your husband are doing awesome — even if your life doesn't seem very Instagram-able sometimes.