What happened to your relationship? You and your husband rarely focus on each other anymore. Instead, you're at work, on your phones or wrapped up in the kids' activities. You aren't really sure what's going on in each other's lives – and you're not interested enough to ask. It's all so different from when you first fell in love and couldn't get enough of each other. If one or both of you are emotionally checked out from your marriage, it doesn't mean that passion and deep connection are gone forever. But it does mean that it's time to give you relationship some TLC.