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Discover the Simple and Profound Secrets for Real Marriage Success!

You’re a busy, ambitious woman, chasing your dreams with everything you have. You always wanted a successful career, a happy home, and a husband who wants you more than anything.

Now you find yourself in a place where you’re wondering whether it was a mistake to marry him.

DON’T GIVE UP! Modern marriage is challenging and requires a very specific approach to make it successful.

Strong Women, Strong Love shows you the quickest, most efficient path to creating the marriage you really want.

By staying focused on what actually works,  you CAN build the relationship of your dreams, without wasting your precious time.

psharmaHello, I’m Dr. Poonam Sharma. As a psychologist practicing for over 20 years, it breaks my heart to watch strong, capable women like you struggling with one of the most important relationships of your life. At Strong Women, Strong Love, my goal is to walk you through the 5 KEY MOVES that keep the love and passion alive in your marriage.

I know how incredibly busy you are, so I’ve done all the hard work for you. There’s no need for guesswork. Top relationship experts have already discovered the essential keys to building the strong and happy relationship you desire. I have been trained by the leading marriage experts in the world, like John Gottman, Sue Johnson, Esther Perel, Terry Real, Janis Abram Spring, Michele Weiner-Davis and Harville Hendrix. I want you to have access to what these professionals know about making marriage work. This was the motivation behind writing my award-winning book, Strong Women, Strong Love: The Missing Manual for the Modern Marriage.

You deserve a relationship where you feel cherished, appreciated and fully supported by your husband. Let me show you how!

How to Make Date Night Better With One Easy Shift

How many articles have you read about the importance of having regular date nights with your husband?

From what I’ve seen, though, date night can backfire sometimes. Tell me if this sounds familiar: You’re determined to have a “real date,” so you hire a sitter and make reservations at a nice restaurant or buy tickets for a special event. The cost of the evening, both in time and money, weighs on you, and so does the expectation that this date will somehow work magic on your relationship. Not surprisingly, the whole thing ends up being more stressful than fun.

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5 Things Every Mother Should Know About Marriage

With Mother’s Day right around the corner, today I have a special blog article for you. It compiles advice from some of my most popular articles on marriage and motherhood. Follow the link with each tip to read more.

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It’s Not About the Nail — So What IS It About?

If you’ve never seen the short video “It’s Not About the Nail,” take a couple of minutes to watch it now: https://youtu.be/-4EDhdAHrOg. You’ll probably enjoy a laugh — and feel a twinge of recognition.

That’s because “It’s Not About the Nail” captures a common situation in marriage. Spouses often go into an interaction with very different expectations, and that can lead to conflict. For example, one spouse doesn’t get their needs met during the interaction and becomes upset. Then the other spouse becomes confused and frustrated because they don’t know why the other spouse is upset and what they need.

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