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Many women are unhappy in their marriage and feel hopeless because they can’t get their husband to work on the relationship.
At Strong Women, Strong Love, we’re committed to showing you how to use your own power to turn your marriage around, with or without his cooperation.
When you know what YOU can do to rekindle love, you will relax knowing you’re not leaving the most important relationship of your life completely up to chance.
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Hello, I’m Dr. Poonam Sharma. As a psychologist practicing for over 25 years, it breaks my heart to watch strong, capable women like you struggling with your marriage.
I know the stakes are incredibly high. No one goes into a marriage thinking they may end up in divorce court one day. And yet, we know that many marriages struggle, and women are usually the ones to call it quits.
At Strong Women, Strong Love, my goal is to show you exactly where to target your energy, so that you’re not guessing about how to keep the love and passion alive in your marriage. I’ve been personally trained by many of the leading marriage experts in the world. They have already discovered the essential keys to building the strong and happy relationship you desire.
Read my book, explore the blog, and take matters into your own hands. With the right information and your strong will, you can defy the odds and get your marriage back on track.
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Women, Men and Emotional Labor
You and your husband may have discussed (or argued about) how you divvy up household chores and responsibilities. But have you ever talked about how the two of you divide the emotional labor that’s necessary to keep your relationship and your family functioning?
The term “emotional labor” has gotten a lot of buzz in the past few years, but it’s not new. Academics have been looking at the concept for decades. Inequity in who performs emotional labor is an issue in the workplace, in social situations and at home. But, since this is a blog about marriage, today I’m going to focus on emotional labor as it affects our domestic relationships.
What a Chinese Finger Trap Can Teach You About Marriage
With Valentine’s Day coming up, are you looking for a romantic gift for your husband? I’ve got an unconventional idea for you.
Pick up a Chinese Finger Trap. Remember this tricky little toy from when you were a kid? If you do, chances are you also remember that the way out of the trap is counterintuitive. Once you have your fingers in the trap, pulling hard to get them out won’t work. The trap loosens only when you relax and move your fingers toward each other.
That’s actually a great metaphor for the relationship patterns we can find ourselves stuck in. You know how it goes: One partner habitually does something and the other always has the same knee-jerk reaction. The same old back-and-forth leads to the same old fights.
Just as with the finger trap, the only way to escape our relationship traps is to pause before you engage in your familiar, instinctive reactions. Relax and move toward each other. Then you can work your way out of the trap.
Esther Perel and ‘The State of Affairs’
If you haven’t experienced Esther Perel’s work yourself yet, you’ve probably heard someone you know talk about it — and likely express some very strong feelings.
Perel is a psychotherapist and a bestselling author. Her 2006 book, Mating in Captivity, touched off a flurry of discussions and debates about eroticism and desire in long-term relationships. Her most recent book, The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity is perhaps even more provocative. In it, she offers insights and advice about infidelity that challenge many of the assumptions of our culture.
So what’s all the fuss about? Here are a few of the key ideas that Perel promotes.